penny for your thoughts.

i don't quite understand why some people like to tell others what to do so much.
is it their weird way of encouraging people to do what they want to do?
or is it merely a weak attempt to put others down?
i am confused.

you ask me, "why did you join rugby for(if you can't even hold on to the damned basketball)?!"
in the struggle(which i prefer to call a melee) for the ball, i did think of a lot of things.

1) why hold on to the damned ball anyway. surely our friendship is more important than the ball.
2) why risk anyone getting injured over a stupid game of basketball. i mean, not that it's a tourney or something.
3) why hold on if i'm tired anyway. letting go was the much easier thing to do.

i really felt that the statement you made was not really necessary.
in basketball, i don't suppose i'm allowed to crash into you like i do with the tackle shield like i used to do on the pitch right?

maybe it was a moment of folly for you, cos you let your thoughts out loud. it's fine, that i can forgive. but lately, you've been ranting about my indecisiveness and my lacklustre attitude to things around me and all. indecisiveness usually comes about when an individual has problems choosing because of the consequences that he or she has to face when making choices. i prefer to hear the opinions of others before making the my decisions so i can decide on the best possible option. surely, open-mindedness is not a sin. and other times, not everyone enjoys the same degree of freedom that you enjoy. household chores are not a thing that bothers you. going out is so much easier for you than it is for me. i have to answer tom people who are more important to me than y'all are.

life isn't that simple.
but it doesn't have to be that complicated either.